m4.5: inline #tags — hashtags in a note become labels (two-way sync)

Fast, cross-device labelling: type #groceries in a note and it becomes
the "groceries" label. The body is the source of truth for tag-labels;
manual picker labels stay independent (rule 28 — additive).

- note_labels.via_tag (migration 0013) marks tag-sourced attachments.
- parse_tags(): #tag at start-of-body or after whitespace, needs a
  letter (so #2024, URL #frags, mid#word are ignored). unit-tested.
- _reconcile_tags() on create + body-update: attach labels for current
  #tags (find-or-create, case-insensitive), detach tag-labels whose tag
  was removed; never touches manual (via_tag=false) rows.
- label picker (set_note_labels + editor onLabelsChange) now preserves
  tag-labels on save, so a picker action can't strip a label the #tag
  still mandates.
- serialize via_tag; card/editor chips render tag-labels as "#name",
  and the editor hides the × on them (remove by editing the tag text).
- LabelPicker builds manual NoteLabels (via_tag:false).

Fourth and final item of M4.5.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01FRgehjoz7Yv8LkUfADxACm

frontend/src/stores/notes.ts

@@ -11,6 +11,9 @@ export interface NoteLabel {
   id: string;
   name: string;
   color: string;
+  // True when this label is attached because of a #tag in the note body (kept in
+  // sync with the text); false = added manually via the picker.
+  via_tag: boolean;
 }
 
 export interface ChecklistItem {