Two new helpers in internal/playevents (CaptureContextualLikeIfPlaying,
SoftDeleteContextualLikes) called by both api and subsonic surfaces.
Like inserts a new contextual_likes row when LikeTrack actually
inserted (rows=1) AND there's an open play_event with a vector.
Unlike soft-deletes via deleted_at. Idempotent in both directions.
Subsonic wiring lands in the next commit.
