feat: notifications say what changed and alert once: a grouped notice names the tracks, grows without re-alerting, and a phone pile lists its titles (M542 #6146-#6151)

- An update to a grouped notice keeps its arrival time and email state, so the
  phone and the email no longer go off again each time it grows.
- Notices carry the names of what changed (newest ten), shown as three and
  "and N more": tracks still missing after the scan's move/replacement fold,
  duplicate groups new to a sweep, songs merged automatically, and the track
  and listener a playback error was for.
- Duplicates found counts only the groups new to that sweep; playback errors
  count reports, not the unresolved total.
- A scan failure says what stopped and links to Admin > Library.
- Android: a pile of more than three alerts lists the newest five titles.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

internal/api/playback_errors.go

@@ -130,7 +130,7 @@ func (h *handlers) handleReportPlaybackError(w http.ResponseWriter, r *http.Requ
 		writeErr(w, apierror.Internal(err))
 		return
 	}
-	h.notifyPlaybackErrors(r.Context())
+	h.notifyPlaybackErrors(r.Context(), trackID, user)
 	writeJSON(w, http.StatusCreated, map[string]string{"id": uuidToString(row.ID)})
 }