fix(auth): build password-reset links from an operator-set public address, never the Host header (M462 #4981)

buildResetURL used r.Host and r.TLS, so a forgot-password request with a
forged Host emailed the victim a real reset token on a link to the
attacker's server. Links now come only from network_settings.public_url
(migration 0062), and no reset email is sent while it is empty; the response
stays the same opaque 200 and the log says why.

The address is set on a new "Public address" card under Admin → Integrations,
which offers the page's own origin and warns while unset. PUT
/api/admin/network-settings takes either field alone, so the proxy card and
this one can't overwrite each other.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

internal/db/migrations/0062_network_public_url.up.sql

@@ -0,0 +1,8 @@
+-- The address users reach Minstrel at, e.g. https://music.example.com.
+--
+-- Password-reset links used to be built from the request's Host header,
+-- which the requester controls: a forgot-password call with a forged Host
+-- would email the victim a real reset token on a link to the attacker's
+-- server. Links are now built only from this operator-set value, and none
+-- are sent while it is empty (M462 #4981).
+ALTER TABLE network_settings ADD COLUMN public_url text NOT NULL DEFAULT '';