feat(auth): throttle login, register, password reset and Subsonic auth failures (M462 #4976)

Every password-shaped check was mounted bare, so guessing was limited only
by bcrypt cost. A shared in-memory AttemptLimiter now sits in front of them:

- login: 10 failures per account and 50 per address per 15 min, checked
  before the user lookup and bcrypt; 429 with Retry-After. A success clears
  the account's count but not the address's.
- unknown usernames run a dummy bcrypt compare, so timing no longer says
  which accounts exist.
- register: 10 per address per hour; forgot-password: 5 per address and 3
  per email per hour (applied whether or not the email matches); reset: 20
  failed tokens per address per 15 min.
- Subsonic /rest: same limits as login, counting only wrong credentials,
  since clients authenticate on every request.

Web login, register, reset and forgot-password screens say how long to
wait; web and Android carry copy for the rate_limited code.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

android/app/src/main/java/com/fabledsword/minstrel/api/ErrorCopy.kt

@@ -75,6 +75,7 @@ object ErrorCopy {
         "forbidden" to "You don't have permission to do that.",
         "not_authorized" to "You don't have permission to do that.",
         "invalid_credentials" to "Wrong username or password.",
+        "rate_limited" to "Too many attempts. Wait a few minutes and try again.",
         "wrong_password" to "Current password is incorrect.",
         "password_too_short" to "Password must be at least 8 characters.",
         "username_invalid" to "That username isn't valid.",