Instead of relying solely on retry-on-500, poll /api/ps before starting
any LLM stream so the main model has time to fully load into VRAM.
- llm.py: add wait_for_model_loaded(model, timeout=90s) — polls /api/ps
every 2s, returns True when model appears in loaded list
- generation_task.py: launch model_load_task in parallel with build_context
and classify_intent (both use fast/small-model ops that don't need the
main model); after context is built, await the load task — shows
"Loading model..." status only if the user actually has to wait;
logs a warning and proceeds if 90s timeout elapses
Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>