ci: the tests gate the publish — ci.yml folds into build.yml

Operator, 2026-09-23: *"tighten the gate so :dev can't publish on red tests"*,
then *"I don't want failing builds to publish anywhere going forward."*

Run 7348 is the worked example. The backend unit lane went red on `2f8f0bc`
and `build-web` pushed `:dev` in the same minute, because the lanes and the
build were SEPARATE WORKFLOWS on the same push trigger. Neither could see the
other's verdict. `:dev` was a "it built" signal, never a "it passed" one, and
nothing about that was visible from either run.

Two workflows cannot express the gate. A `needs:` edge only exists inside one
graph. So `ci.yml`'s five lanes move into `build.yml` and `ci.yml` is deleted;
`sign-extension`, `build-web` and `build-agent` now need all five.

Nothing here is a new mechanism — it is the same edge that has gated `promote`
since milestone 362 step 4, and it keeps that step's hardest-won property:
**not running is not the same as passing.** `needs` treats a SKIPPED
dependency as unsatisfied, so a lane that silently skips itself blocks the
publish exactly as a failing one does. Run 5290 is why that is worth stating.

Scope, said plainly rather than implied:

- Gated: every image tag (`:dev`, `:latest`, `:c-<sha>`), the weekly base
  refresh, and the `ext-<version>` signed-XPI release asset — `sign-extension`
  publishes too, so it is gated with the rest.
- Not gated, deliberately: `extension.yml` publishes nothing, and
  `release.yml` runs on a `v*` tag, generates notes rather than an artifact,
  and its commit already went through main's gated build.
- `pull_request` (Renovate bumps into `dev`) comes across with the lanes. Its
  runs are the lanes and nothing else, via an `if:` on each publishing job
  rather than an inference from the `needs` chain.

The cost, accepted knowingly: this workflow queues per branch and never
cancels, so on two pushes in quick succession the second's lint feedback waits
out the first's build. A slower red beats a fast red that ships.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01LVjrnpQjRgHdvq95rASoiR

backend/app/scripts/wait_for_deps.py

@@ -26,7 +26,7 @@ be a check (with retries) at the start of the container."* Yes.
 
 ## A TCP connect, not a query
 
-The same probe `ci.yml`'s integration lane and the build smoke already use.
+The same probe `build.yml`'s integration lane and the build smoke already use.
 It answers the question that is actually being asked — is something listening
 — and it cannot fail for a reason that retrying will never fix.