feat(b3): ml-worker becomes optional — embed-only role, decoupled GPU coordination, cpu-embed switch

The ml-worker's ONLY processing role is now the CPU whole-image embed fallback
(tag_and_embed renamed embed_image — Camie tagging was retired #1189 and the
name kept implying otherwise; videos were already handled agent-style: frame
sampling + mean-pool). Detection/cropping/CCIP stay GPU-agent-only, and their
completion is judged per-pipeline: ccip by gpu_job rows, siglip by concept
regions at the current model version — never by image_record.siglip_embedding.
A CPU embed therefore can NEVER close crop work for the agent (regression test
pins this; only the whole-image 'embed' job, the same artifact, is satisfied).

Making removal actually safe (operator will drop the container):
- GPU-queue coordination (enqueue_gpu_backfill, recover_orphaned_gpu_jobs,
  reprocess_gpu_jobs) moved verbatim to tasks/gpu_queue.py on the maintenance
  quick lane — it lived on the 'ml' queue only by module colocation, which made
  the ml-worker a hard dependency of the whole agent pipeline.
- New ml_settings.cpu_embed_enabled (migration 0074, default ON so agent-less
  installs keep working): OFF stops the four import hooks queueing embed work
  nothing will consume and no-ops the manual backfill; switch lives on the
  renamed 'CPU embedding backfill' card.
- NB heads training / auto-apply still run on the ml image (sklearn) — a stack
  that removes the container gives those up too.

Deploy note: in-flight messages under the old task names are dropped by the
new workers; the 60s orphan sweep + hourly backfill re-fire under the new
names immediately.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01CDgx8bQS5YrGRK76v8HUnM

backend/app/api/ml_admin.py

@@ -9,6 +9,7 @@ ml_admin_bp = Blueprint("ml_admin", __name__, url_prefix="/api/ml")
 
 
 _EDITABLE = (
+    "cpu_embed_enabled",
     "video_frame_interval_seconds",
     "video_max_frames",
     "head_min_positives",
@@ -63,6 +64,7 @@ async def get_settings():
         ).scalar_one()
     return jsonify(
         {
+            "cpu_embed_enabled": s.cpu_embed_enabled,
             "video_frame_interval_seconds": s.video_frame_interval_seconds,
             "video_max_frames": s.video_max_frames,
             "embedder_model_version": s.embedder_model_version,