feat: images and attachments go to the off-site bucket once each, by fingerprint

With an off-site destination set up, the library's files are sent to the
bucket's media/ folder as media/ab/cd/<sha256><ext>, beside the database
dumps under database/. Each file goes once: a new backup_blob table records
what each destination holds (migration 0121), and a run's work list is every
image and attachment sha with no row yet, so runs are incremental and a new
bucket starts its copy from the beginning.

- The bucket checks each file against the sha recorded at import; a file
  over 1 GiB goes in parts and is checked before the upload is completed.
  A file missing or changed on disk is reported, not stored.
- A run is chunked: each 45-minute chunk commits after every file and queues
  the next, so other long-maintenance jobs get turns. One run at a time.
  The stall sweep judges a media run by its progress heartbeat
  (backup_run.last_progress_at), not its start.
- A file that can't be sent is listed on the run (status ok, with the error
  line) and tried again by the next run. A refused put for an object
  already in an append-only bucket counts as sent.
- Nightly, with a destination set, runs the dump and then the media.
- Weekly reconcile lists media/ and re-sends what the bucket lost, and
  adopts what it already holds (a restored database sends nothing twice).
- Uploads use the bandwidth limit; read transactions end before transfers.
- Backups card: with a destination, an "Images and attachments" section
  shows coverage (files and bytes in the bucket), "Send new files now", and
  the media runs. Without one, the local tarball section is unchanged.
- Media run history keeps the latest 60 rows.

Task #6879, milestone 586.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

backend/app/tasks/maintenance.py

@@ -842,10 +842,18 @@ def recover_stalled_backup_runs() -> int:
             update(BackupRun)
             .where(BackupRun.status.in_(["running", "restoring"]))
             # db backups/restores are fast (40-min window); images run hours (7h).
+            # A media run spans many chunks and hours on purpose, so its window
+            # runs from its last progress, not from its start.
             .where(
                 or_(
                     and_(BackupRun.kind == "db", BackupRun.started_at < db_cutoff),
-                    and_(BackupRun.kind != "db", BackupRun.started_at < slow_cutoff),
+                    and_(
+                        BackupRun.kind == "media",
+                        func.coalesce(BackupRun.last_progress_at, BackupRun.started_at)
+                        < slow_cutoff,
+                    ),
+                    and_(BackupRun.kind.not_in(["db", "media"]),
+                         BackupRun.started_at < slow_cutoff),
                 )
             )
             .values(status="error", finished_at=now, error=msg)