feat: images and attachments go to the off-site bucket once each, by fingerprint

With an off-site destination set up, the library's files are sent to the
bucket's media/ folder as media/ab/cd/<sha256><ext>, beside the database
dumps under database/. Each file goes once: a new backup_blob table records
what each destination holds (migration 0121), and a run's work list is every
image and attachment sha with no row yet, so runs are incremental and a new
bucket starts its copy from the beginning.

- The bucket checks each file against the sha recorded at import; a file
  over 1 GiB goes in parts and is checked before the upload is completed.
  A file missing or changed on disk is reported, not stored.
- A run is chunked: each 45-minute chunk commits after every file and queues
  the next, so other long-maintenance jobs get turns. One run at a time.
  The stall sweep judges a media run by its progress heartbeat
  (backup_run.last_progress_at), not its start.
- A file that can't be sent is listed on the run (status ok, with the error
  line) and tried again by the next run. A refused put for an object
  already in an append-only bucket counts as sent.
- Nightly, with a destination set, runs the dump and then the media.
- Weekly reconcile lists media/ and re-sends what the bucket lost, and
  adopts what it already holds (a restored database sends nothing twice).
- Uploads use the bandwidth limit; read transactions end before transfers.
- Backups card: with a destination, an "Images and attachments" section
  shows coverage (files and bytes in the bucket), "Send new files now", and
  the media runs. Without one, the local tarball section is unchanged.
- Media run history keeps the latest 60 rows.

Task #6879, milestone 586.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

backend/app/celery_app.py

@@ -302,6 +302,10 @@ def make_celery() -> Celery:
                 "task": "backend.app.tasks.backup.prune_backups",
                 "schedule": 86400.0,  # daily
             },
+            "reconcile-media-backup": {
+                "task": "backend.app.tasks.backup.reconcile_media_backup",
+                "schedule": 604800.0,  # weekly: list the bucket, re-send what's missing
+            },
             # Audit 2026-06-02 — three new per-entity recovery sweeps.
             # Each runs every 5 min like the other recover_stalled_*
             # sweeps; each is a no-op when nothing is stuck.